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Undoing the Alone
Timothy Rogers, MA, LMFT
Being forced to abandon your true self due to narcissistic (trauma) parenting is the precursor to emotional (not being permitted to express your Self as a child), physical (when a patent is no longer there due death or divorce or never was there). Or when a sibling is born, or has a need greater than average due to mental, physical or emotional health )
And if any of that happened between the ages of 0-3 when we develop our actual personality, the disorder of THAT kind of trauma often leads to an alternate developed or falsely developed self. It’s the intrusiveness of having to adhere to the overarching needs of an authority figure, which establishes that kind of codependent relationship for the rest of that child’s life.
Unless through intervention (usually because of drug/alcohol or sex or shopping or eating as a way to medicate what is unconsciously understood), that child who was forced to be an adult too early whom everyone praised or being so mature now an adult doesn’t know enough on how to be a grown up. But it’s the original relationship that was toxic or what was taught was toxic.
So they either ignore the personality traits that everyone is noticing but says nothing, or they are in jail or they learn but only the through crisis. So toxic because it’s a relationship problem, a which means a relationship which is not toxic is the treatment! An object(ive) NOR objectifying relationship which is empathic, direct and flexible when they can try to thrive and not be judged. That’s therapy. That’s real and that’s honestly going to support you AND hold you accountable ... to your Self!